Online dating safety tips for the LGBTQ+ community

Online dating safety tips for the LGBTQ+ community

June is Pride month and I thought I would celebrate it by sharing some tips on how to stay safe when online dating as a member of the LGBTQ+ community

June is Pride month and I thought I would celebrate it by sharing some tips on how to stay safe when online dating as a member of the LGBTQ+ community.

Although the principles are the same, it is known fact that you are more likely to experience abuse online and whilst online dating can be a positive experience, it’s essential that you keep yourself safe.

You can wave that flag with pride but the second it starts turning red, you need to run a mile!

Now, I don’t want to be all negative nelly or anything, I have worked with many members of the LGBTQ+ community who have a ball online, but a few tips never hurt anyone. So here goes.

Fake profiles – they’re everywhere!

It’s easy to set up a profile and pretend to be someone you’re not and everyone should know how to at least spot the obvious signs.

Easy tips

  • Ask for more photos
  • Ask them to take an ‘in the moment’ selfie
  • Ask for a phone number
  • Go a little stalkerish and check out their socials
  • Question anything that doesn’t feel right

Meet in a public place

This may seem obvious but believe me, many a singleton has ventured to a ‘romantic spot’ only to find it a little too secluded.

Easy tips

  • Arrange a lunch time date to start
  • Meet in a restaurant or bar
  • Go on a day trip to a zoo or local park
  • Don’t arrange to travel together
  • Don’t allow them to pick you up
  • Always tell a friend where you’re going and ask them to check in (the old, do I need to have a crisis call)

There are a lot to choose from and I know that Grindr may seem the obvious choice for many, but they have been criticised time and time again for their failure to ensure online safety for their users.

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Of course, if you’re just after a hook up then go for it but please follow the tips above when meeting for the first time.

Red flags

Online dating is a minefield for everyone but there are a few red flags to look out for that not everyone gets.

Quick red flags to run from

  • Someone coming on too strong too quickly
  • Learn how to identify when this is happening
  • Unable to answer simple questions
  • They want to keep you a secret
  • They won’t provide more photos or information

On the date

Before you head off into the sunset, you should make a few things clear. Make sure you understand what you are both looking for and stay on the same page.

Quick first date tips

  • Share your expectations in advance. Know where you both stand
  • Limit your alcohol intake. Don’t leave yourself vulnerable
  • Make sure you have a friend on hand to rescue you if you need it
  • Take protection, don’t rely on them!
  • If you feel uncomfortable in any way, make your excuses and leave

Online dating is fun but don’t put yourself in a vulnerable position. Choose the dating apps that you gel with and always stay alert to things that don’t feel right.

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